Care home grants 'waiter in thong' wish
WHEN a 90-year-old woman asked to be served fish and chips
by a waiter wearing a thong, the care home was happy to
oblige.
Her fantasy was fulfilled by staff at the Woodland House
care home in St Austell, Cornwall – run by Cornwall Care, a
charitable independent care provider.
A male member of staff volunteered to act as her waiter –
and served the traditional dish clad only in a thong and a
see-through apron.
A spokesman for Cornwall Care said the resident – who has
not been named – said afterwards: "I thoroughly enjoyed my fish
and chips served by the half- naked man, which was all done in
good taste."
However, Tracie North, director of operations and quality
for Cornwall Care, yesterday apologised in case some people
were offended by the treat and said staff had "overstepped the
mark" in helping fulfil the lady's request for the company's
Make A Wish initiative.
She said: "The care of our clients is our number-one
priority and fundamental to this is giving them choices and
respecting their wishes as adults.
"The lady herself, her family and the member of staff who
acted as her waiter believe that, while it may have been a bit
risque, the wish was carried out with the utmost respect for
all those involved and taken in the good-humoured way it was
intended by residents and staff."
The wish is just one of a number granted to Cornwall Care
clients, including a lady who wanted to ride on the carousel at
the Royal Cornwall Show. It took four people to help her get on
– and the staff of the ride were so impressed that she rode for
free.












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by Jeanette, Swindon
Wednesday, August 27 2008, 10:01AM
“Having worked in social care with older clients for 20 years I think this is brilliant - it gives me hope for a more interesting old age and certainly beats only bingo weekly to relieve the boredom!! I think I'll be on the waiting list for this establishment! I can't imagine why anyone would be offended by this - as the quote on my office wall says, " We do not stop playing because we get old, we get old because we stop playing!" This is part of person centred care, the fun stuff as well as the everyday required living support - well done Cornwall Care, you have my vote!”
by Sue, Falmouth
Wednesday, August 13 2008, 10:42AM
“Well done to the home and staff for doing this. I am sure that there is no need for any apology from Tracie North.
Why should anyone be upset when something like this has obviously given this lady a lot of fun and pleasure.
Keep up the good work - it is good for the residents and staff alike.”
by Charles Henry, Somerset
Sunday, August 10 2008, 8:42AM
“Yes well done staff! . I see by Tracie North's remarks you obviously have no shortage of 'upthemselves' in Cornwall either. . I may well book a place there myself a little later. . . I've had this thing about being served 'peeled grapes' ever since I first got married. . . www.charleshenry.co.uk”
by jan, st.austell
Saturday, August 09 2008, 3:14PM
“well done to the member of staff and all envolved helping a old lady get her wish, shame there are not more people willing to do things for others in this world”
by roy, yealmpton
Saturday, August 09 2008, 12:55PM
“Excellent contribution by staffmember. In future please keep "Special requests" private. Hence, happy resident and contented residents. Keep up the good work!!!”